tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8462636453989617370.post6266413255375621883..comments2023-06-03T09:11:53.986-07:00Comments on Just a Bald Man . . . .: Kids Don't Require PerfectJeff Sabohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08229995530493648253noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8462636453989617370.post-55568359229779488632010-09-13T09:49:33.097-07:002010-09-13T09:49:33.097-07:00I love that you shared your imperfections. It help...I love that you shared your imperfections. It helps me to try to remember that I don't have to be perfect either. Thanks!!Shady Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05955726656904697280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8462636453989617370.post-59076607992991391052010-09-13T11:32:05.292-07:002010-09-13T11:32:05.292-07:00I love this post Jeff. It really strikes a cord in...I love this post Jeff. It really strikes a cord in me. I for a long time I strived to be perfect and never get upset or never be in a bad mood and to always be present and to always know what to do and to always be able to think outside the box and meet everyone's needs equally but I eventually got burnt out fast and I was really hard on myself because I couldn't be that person that I thought I needed to be. Then I realized I just need to be me in the most honest way that I can be and that I am not perfect in any way and that I can't always be happy and on top of the world and they will be okay with that. They will love me more if I am honest and authentic and not trying to be someone I am not. I am a very playful and loving person who loves to joke around and be silly but I wasn't that way for a long time I was under the impression that I am a mom now and I have to grow up and let go of the sillyness. I finally let go of all that non sense and it feels good to be silly and allow my inner child to come out my girls love the real me and love that we can joke and laugh together about stuff that most parents would get upset about like a can of pop exploding in the kitchen because they shook it. I feel more joy when I am me because I am in alignment with who I truly am. My girls are more then happy to let me have mommy time outs and they sometimes tell me to take them when I am getting over whelmed and they notice it.Brendahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00471955357694020054noreply@blogger.com